Day 6-A Song That Reminds You of Somewhere...

I lived in Chicago for two years while completing my graduate degree and it was a great two years. I was 23, single but attached in a long-distance relationship and completely alone in a big city. It was like starting fresh in many ways...new town, new way of life, new friends. I spent a lot of time on public transportation, much like anybody that lives in a city. For Christmas, I got an MP3 player to block out the noise of the buses and the annoying people. I had that thing hooked to me for 2 years. I had a variety of songs and I went through a few phases of getting hooked to Elvis, Ray Charles, The Killers and Johnny Cash. Gnarls Barkley was huge during those years with "Crazy" and Justin had his "Sexyback." I was still trading music with my DH, a way to keep connected through the distance. At one point I got hooked on Jackson Browne and during my long commutes I would listen to a lot of Jackson Browne. I particularly fell in love with "Running on Empty" and "The Pretender." I often listened to Running on Empty when I really felt at my limits with school, my internship, the commute, the expenses of living in a city, being away from my boyfriend and family. My beloved grandfather died the 2nd to last semester of school in November, my family dog of 18 years was put to sleep the following spring. I'm the only person in my family to have a graduate degree, something I'm really proud to have. Its my greatest accomplishment thus far in my almost 29 years.

It was a really wonderful two years and really formative in many ways. I am still very close friends with the people I met then, I have fond memories of living in the city. This song has a lot of ambiguity but whatever its meaning, I think its ultimately about dreams. When I hear "Read My Mind" by The Killers, I am taken back to the train where I spent many nights watching the city lights glitter, reflecting on my days, worried about bills and wondering if my boyfriend would propose (he did of course). Missing my grandfather with an ache in my heart I had never known, knowing he was watching over me. Working hard into the witching hours, laughing and having fun with my friends over food, drinks and a dance floor. I love Chicago, it will always have a place in my heart.

The Killers-Read My Mind

Day 5-A Song That Reminds You of Someone...

DH and I traded music back and forth quite frequently when we were long-distance. Having illegally downloaded music wasnt such a big deal back in 2003. In fact, one of his first gifts to me was a CD of music we had traded. Aaah the modern version of the mix tape, it must have been love, haha. Anyway, as a result a ton of songs remind me of him. Here Without You by 3 Doors Down was one of the first songs he traded to me. I traded him tons of jazz and classical music, he introduced me to Our Lady Peace and The Tea Party, a few Canadian bands. Our wedding song is Keeper of the Stars by Tracy Byrd which I could easily link here but that seems rather cliche to post as a song that reminds me of him. Its just too obvious.

Instead I'll post a link to a song we have sang badly together. We were playing SingStar 80's at a gathering at a friends house. You can play this either by solo or by duet so DH and I did a duet. Neither of us can sing to save our lives, we are both incredibly flat and off-key. DH rarely knows the correct lyrics, try as he may and despite my musical talent with instruments, I have never been able to sing. So this was our song that night and it was incredibly embarassing because you can play back your recording. All of us had a great laugh and now when it comes on the radio, we turn it up and blast it, singing shamelessly and laughing our asses off.

Simple Minds-Dont You (Forget About Me)



The other song I want to post is a song that reminds me of Maxim. Like a good preggo, I put together my labor playlist to be played during labor. I made the selection and DH put it together for me on his Ipod. I had a wide variety of music...rock, jazz, classical, DMB. For some reason though, during my labor, I latched onto this particular song. My hospital stay and labor was very long (58 hours from water break to baby born) and there were many sort of mini-breakdowns along the way. This song sort of elevated me back up during those times. I also sang it to him in the early weeks when trying to get him to sleep. When I hear it, I think of my sweet boy and his birthday and all the joy he has brought to me.

Rufus Wainwright-Hallelujah

Day 4-A Song That Makes You Cry

Hands down, this song gets me every single time. I hear it on the radio, Im a mess. I hear it at wedding dances, where it is commonly played, and I'm a blubbering fool. I'm very sentimental and this song brings up so many thoughts of a life lived with another and all the good and bad that comes with partnership, building a family and love. I recall too when I was visiting my dying grandfather and getting ready to say goodbye for the last time. He was admitted into ICU during my visit and me and my grandmother went up there to visit him. I didnt witness many tender moments between the two of them over the years but I distinctly remember my grandmother kissing him, holding his hand and reassuring him (herself, me, all of us?). This song reminds me of them and the reflections they must have been having on their lives and life together during that time. And other older people who have lived life well and all the things they have witnessed and been through together. It reminds me that DH and I have already come so far but still have a lifetime ahead of us too. Oh the beautiful things we have together and will witness, oh the hard time we have had and will have, oh all the dreams we share, all with the ultimate goal of looking back when we are old and gray and hopefully satisfied and saying remember when...

Alan Jackson, Remember When

Day 3-A Song That Makes You Happy

Love songs make me happy. Usually, I dont like "love" songs written by pop groups or very young singers (think boy bands, even when I was in their target age group, I didnt like them) mostly because I'm not sure they even know what they are singing about and I like songs that are more lyrically meaningful when written about love. You'll see later that this rule isnt very strict for me, there is one pop song right now that I have a place for in my heart and its very much about lust and puppy love. Anyway, once again its hard to choose since so many genres offer such wonderful love songs. But I love me some Van Morrison. He was a master at the meaningful love song..."Crazy Love" "Moondance" "Tupelo Honey," but I'm going to choose one of his more obscure songs. Its beautiful in its simplicity and written with such raw lyrics of what I think most men think of love but cant or dont say it...just a man and his guitar and his heart.

Van Morrison I'll Be Your Lover Too



And a bonus Van...Someone Like You

Day 2-Your Least Favorite Song

It may seem strange that a person born in the 80's would choose an obscure 70's song as their least favorite but its true for me. When I was in high school, I worked as a cashier at a hardware store. It was a privately owned hardware store that depended a great deal on general contractors and less on the public at large like the large chain hardware store down the road. So it was often quiet, especially in the evenings. The boss put the store radio tuned to the least offensive category of music on radio...easy rock or easy listening. As a result we heard this song a lot and my god it was awful. Its corny as hell and while I adore the saxophone (and still wish I would have picked it as my instrument in band instead of clarinet), this song is just so cringeworthy in the sax solo. And lets be honest, its not just the sax that is major problem with this song.

So when I hear this song, I remember my days as a 16 year old mixing paint and cutting keys and learning a thing or two about plumbing and laughing hysterically with my co-workers about the baddness of this song. And honestly, if I didnt love George Michael, Careless Whisper is another example of the horrible 80's sax.

Gerry Rafferty-Baker Street

30 Day Song Challenge

In an effort to get this blog more interesting and to get myself out of a slump, I'm doing a 30 day Song challenge. This has been going around on Facebook but instead of flooding my news feed with videos, I thought I would do it here. So here goes nothing.

Day 1-Your Favorite Song

This is super hard for me because music is a huge aspect of my life. I have so many favorites, its almost impossible for me to pick one. However, I do think my absolute favorite song is #41 by Dave Matthews Band. I love it for so many reasons...its haunting, passionate and ambiguous in meaning. The way Dave's voice plays on the tones and the instrumentals are superior. It is a song that always changes my mood for the better when I hear it and it feels so powerful. I've heard it once out of four live concerts I've attended and it was spine tingling. Much of Dave's music is unbelievable when hearing it live though but #41 was just on a whole other level. I imagine another Dave song will make this list at some point but #41 is at the top. Its this song that made me a forever DMB fan.
This particular rendition I've chosen is probably the best of his live shows. His acoustic version is unreal...just Dave and his guitar.

11 Months

Maxim sweet boy, you are 11 months. In just one month, we will be celebrating your birth. How fast this year has gone.

You are eating all table food now and are not happy with maman feeding you unless its yogurt or applesauce. Mr. Independent you want to feed yourself and you are quite good at it. You love garlic olive oil chicken, pasta, english muffins, toast, asparagus, green beans, and raspberries. Your great grandma's also helped you discover toast with jam this week so now Maman will have to start buying jam. Basically you eat anything we put in front of you except sweet potato and avocado. You also like some snack foods like yogurt covered bites, banana puffs and crackers. Despite your grandma's insistence, you havent had any sugar like ice cream (poor tortured boy, lol) but on your first birthday, you'll get to have cake and ice cream. Maman thinks you need to learn to eat better than she does so no sugar until your first birthday and then after, only a little bit here and there for special occassions.

You are starting to move more and explore your world which means you can turn full circles if your on your butt and rotate around on your belly. You are also stretching and reaching more which lands you on your belly at times. You love to stand and bounce.

You are quite the chatterbox. You make noise all day long and you can say mama and dada very clearly. You make this long loud high pitched Oooooo sound when you are excited which makes us laugh. You also know how to roll a ball to Maman and you understand what shut off the light means. You cant quite get the little lever pushed down yet but soon.

You are making your preferences known and you are very good at letting us know when you are mad. I see some head butting and typical toddler behavior in our future. You are very much like your mother in many ways but you have some of your papa's qualities too. Most of the time, you are such a happy easy going baby and a joy. Always lots of smiles for us every day.

We love you sweet baby more and more every day!!